You want the REAL story??..Here it is…
Well, I am not feeling good. Actually I am feeling…….very much alone right now!
It began about 6 weeks ago…………..
my husband for no reason announced to me that even after a year and a half he can not use the cellphone to do a text message. At that I laughed. He stated he can only reply to those messages.
I never thought anything about it.
OF COURSE, I believed it!
The lady asked me if I would like unlimited text messaging? I said “yeah! I need that because I do text a lot”. She replied “well, for your phone you really dont need it, but for your husbands line you do!”
I told her it must of been a mistake my husband dont even know how to text. She explained that my husband has about tripple the text messages than I.
Of course that evening I asked him about it. He played it down, and said “You know the guys at work they send jokes and we send them back and forth and forward”
ME…of course believed it!!!
Why wouldnt I ????
Anyways, about December 22nd, early morning, my husband gets off work and where does he go….straight home RIGHT!!
No, I wake up, and he isnt home. Of course I call him on HIS cellphone. HE telling me he is on his way home, I said well it is 6am, shouldnt you be here?
Ok, for some odd reason I pulled up his bank account, and low and behold he spent 23.00 dollars at Denny’s. Of course he telling me he invited a old man that works with him. ISNT HE KIND?????
Alright, I OF COURSE believed every word he said!!!
There was however a charge for a toy from a store in Roanoke. There also was a 16.00 dollar charge for a christmas card. 16.00 dollars. WOW ONE CARD?? I don’t think so. But ok!
Now here we go, are you ready…………………….
He is not at home.
I call him, ” Iam on the way” he replied. Ok, but where are you coming from??? From work??
“No, me and THE GUYS, went to Denny’s!”
I went to the bank account and again, he spend 23.79 dollar.
I ask him ” Invited someone?” “yes, a coworker, who didnt have any money”
And yes, I found phone number’s from a couple women, a Sticker from a Floral Bouquet, price still on there,…..BUT….I never received any flowers….hmmmm
And there was ONE number that keeps coming up and up and up……..and YES I called that number, and a woman answers. I hung up!
Oh I tried the other number too, and YES another woman answers, and I hung up.
But this one number is the one. She texts him and he texts her. It starts at about 6pm EVERY evening, and it goes back and forth every few minutes until about 9pm…thats when he has to work…..than it continues right after work until about 11:00am or 12 noon. EVERY DAY!
There are hundreds of text messages between them two since november.
Now, isnt that suspicious??
Is this all in my mind???
You think I should ask him???
Oh, I already did, and guess what?
It is all in my mind, I am crazy, I should stay out of his personal bank account.
Yeah thats where I am at.
by the way did I mention that my husband cheated on me the same way from 1996-97 to about 1999, thats when I left him.
RIGHT!
I am sick to my stomach, I couldnt stay at work, I had to go home. I wanted to REALLY confront him. But I didnt. Oh, he had to leave early tonight too. He usually leaves at about 8:30pm. Tonight he went in early at 7pm
Yet still and espcially now, I praise God. I know He loves me, He will take care of me, He will guide me, He will work this out. All praises to Him from whom all Blessings flow
pttyann said,
December 29, 2008 at 10:25 pm
You’re a better wife than I could be,thank God for your strength .Your post really touched my heart and I have been there,but I don’t plan on going back,since you made this post public I am sure you will receive all kind of answers.There is no need to lie,you know he is cheating again! And I hope you continue to seek God as to what you should do.I can’t give you my; this is what I would do,because talk is cheap and unless we’re in that situation,we really don’t know.May God give you peace & wisdom.
Love in Christ
Chris Griffith said,
December 31, 2008 at 8:36 am
Andrea
I’ll be praying for you! We love you and miss you!
Chris
Freddy said,
December 31, 2008 at 9:25 pm
Andrea,
My heart goes out to you. That is a pain that goes down deep. I cannot tell you what to do. Only you can figure that out – with the help of Christ. I will pray for you. If there is anything else I can do, please let me know If you need to talk – just call.
Sounds like you could use a dose of church right now. But either way, remember that Christ is your ultimate and forever husband and He is COMPLETELY faithful!
You are loved!
timbob said,
March 3, 2009 at 1:37 pm
Hi Andrea. I haven’t been by in a while and so this is the first time that I’ve read this. I had no idea of these goings on. I don’t really know what to say in a comment other that to let you know that I’ll keep you in prayer. I pray that things have improved in the two months since this was posted. The enemy is assaulting on every front these days.
Blessings always in Jesus name.
timbob
PEggy said,
April 19, 2009 at 6:26 pm
Havent heard from you in a good while, I hope that everything is alright. I’ll remember you in prayer. Remember that God has the very last word and he will perform His Word. Be strong and hold on .
Peggy