You want the REAL story??..Here it is…
Well, I am not feeling good. Actually I am feeling…….very much alone right now!
It began about 6 weeks ago…………..
my husband for no reason announced to me that even after a year and a half he can not use the cellphone to do a text message. At that I laughed. He stated he can only reply to those messages.
I never thought anything about it.
OF COURSE, I believed it!
The lady asked me if I would like unlimited text messaging? I said “yeah! I need that because I do text a lot”. She replied “well, for your phone you really dont need it, but for your husbands line you do!”
I told her it must of been a mistake my husband dont even know how to text. She explained that my husband has about tripple the text messages than I.
Of course that evening I asked him about it. He played it down, and said “You know the guys at work they send jokes and we send them back and forth and forward”
ME…of course believed it!!!
Why wouldnt I ????
Anyways, about December 22nd, early morning, my husband gets off work and where does he go….straight home RIGHT!!
No, I wake up, and he isnt home. Of course I call him on HIS cellphone. HE telling me he is on his way home, I said well it is 6am, shouldnt you be here?
Ok, for some odd reason I pulled up his bank account, and low and behold he spent 23.00 dollars at Denny’s. Of course he telling me he invited a old man that works with him. ISNT HE KIND?????
Alright, I OF COURSE believed every word he said!!!
There was however a charge for a toy from a store in Roanoke. There also was a 16.00 dollar charge for a christmas card. 16.00 dollars. WOW ONE CARD?? I don’t think so. But ok!
Now here we go, are you ready…………………….
He is not at home.
I call him, ” Iam on the way” he replied. Ok, but where are you coming from??? From work??
“No, me and THE GUYS, went to Denny’s!”
I went to the bank account and again, he spend 23.79 dollar.
I ask him ” Invited someone?” “yes, a coworker, who didnt have any money”
And yes, I found phone number’s from a couple women, a Sticker from a Floral Bouquet, price still on there,…..BUT….I never received any flowers….hmmmm
And there was ONE number that keeps coming up and up and up……..and YES I called that number, and a woman answers. I hung up!
Oh I tried the other number too, and YES another woman answers, and I hung up.
But this one number is the one. She texts him and he texts her. It starts at about 6pm EVERY evening, and it goes back and forth every few minutes until about 9pm…thats when he has to work…..than it continues right after work until about 11:00am or 12 noon. EVERY DAY!
There are hundreds of text messages between them two since november.
Now, isnt that suspicious??
Is this all in my mind???
You think I should ask him???
Oh, I already did, and guess what?
It is all in my mind, I am crazy, I should stay out of his personal bank account.
Yeah thats where I am at.
by the way did I mention that my husband cheated on me the same way from 1996-97 to about 1999, thats when I left him.
RIGHT!
I am sick to my stomach, I couldnt stay at work, I had to go home. I wanted to REALLY confront him. But I didnt. Oh, he had to leave early tonight too. He usually leaves at about 8:30pm. Tonight he went in early at 7pm
Yet still and espcially now, I praise God. I know He loves me, He will take care of me, He will guide me, He will work this out. All praises to Him from whom all Blessings flow
What’s going on with Andrea ???
It has been a long time since I posted.
The year went by so quickly it makes my head spin. I did not feel old until this year!
Constantly I am tired and wore out.
I left Wal-Mart in the middle of March this year, and moved on to a different position with Dishnetwork. I did not know that a sitting down job really gets me at the core.
No no, I love it, but it is very demanding. My body does not move (thats not a good thing when your a heavy person) but my brain runs a marathon every day.
Every single day I learn something new. Every call is a new challenge!
But guess what???
I LOVE IT!
The only downside on this job is….
I haven’t been in Church since August, the last time I set foot in our Church was on August 10th. At first it was that I was on a shift where I got home between 2:30am and 3:30am, than there was the hope of getting a new shift since we had shiftbids coming up in October.
Well October came it we didnt get a single bid.
I did however get a new shift on December 13th. Unfortunately it wasnt what I wanted. Now my shift is from 2pm to 11pm. But I have to work Sundays. And on Sundays we have to come in earlier. So again I am waiting for another shiftbid.
But with God all things are possible, I just have to wait for His timing and everything will be ok.
Currently I am fighting a bronchitis, but I am over the worsest part of it I think. Fever is gone, just losing my voice here and there.
My son came back home for a little while and now a week ago moved out and found a place to live in the city. He also got himself a job starting the 1st of the year with the Roanoke Hospital as a assistant manager in there cafeteria.
I am very happy for him!
The only thing I do not like is that he tries so hard to talk me into talking to his wife. Yes they are really married, and she is pregnant. He says his wish would be that I talk to her and forgive her for what she done. I already forgave her but that does not mean that I have to go down the same road again.
I keep telling him give it time, time heals all things, and when God wants me to have contact with my daughter-inlaw it’ll happen sometime.
My husband is doing real well since the surgery. And praise God that neither his or my company are planning on any lay-offs.
I think even if people lose their jobs they still want to watch tv (perhaps even more) and people also trying to fix their cars themselfs or buy parts to let someone fix it for them. For now we are in good shape!
My Mom is sill very very ill! She cant beat this throat cancer thing. I havent heard my Mom’s voice in about a year or longer, and it is sad. I miss her voice, since that was the only thing I had since I live in the States.
My grandbaby is doing real well and he is turning 2 on December 30th. I havent seen him since August neither because of his mom’s and my work schedule it just doesnt work out for us to get together. But we are planning to meet January 1st before I go to work!
I am still so happy about our home, but we have issues with the fireplace. Smoke keeps rolling in even with little wind outside. I ordered a smoke guard that should help but what we really need is a chimney cap and neither me or hubby knows anything about installing such a thing. We have no clue!!!
My Chimney on top of the roof that part is totally open, and any little wind goes right down to the fireplace. Many times we had super smoke in the house because of that.
Also we had lots of issues with wood. The first guy was very expansive the second guy sold us rotten wood that wouldnt burn but more likely melted. And it was light as styrofoam.
Now we finally found a guy that delivers better wood but it is all hardwood and it takes a long time to get a good fire going.
So guy’s you have a update now. I will post again as soon as I can.
I always think of you all and especially of the friends and family of my Church. I miss out on so much I know.
Keep God first !
Love and Blessings
Andrea
